In math, an even function is generally one where the same positive output results from a negative input value of the same positive number. For example, plugging in the values of negative/positive 3 into the function “x squared” results in the same positive output of nine. Writing groups, according to Anne Lamott’s instructions, seem to fit the definition of an even function. Members in a writing group help out by listening to other writers’ negative aspects of writing and attempting to turn these into beneficial pieces of advice, empathy, or affirmation. This positive feedback not only helps us focus and guide our writing; it also encourages us to continue pursuing what we have joined the group to accomplish and builds good relationships that goes beyond just the scope of the group.
Lamott gives an excellent example of how writing groups apply in real life situations when she describes four former students who created a group in her class. They meet regularly, have open discussions, and improve upon each other’s already excellent aspects of writing. As a result, all four have gained confidence in their writing abilities, know people in close contact who will listen to their problems, and most importantly, have built great friendships that are based on trust and love. In groups, all these things can happen given a good combination of willing people.
When we think of our closest friends, about three or four faces immediately come to mind. In many cases, most of these friends will be a a member of a group with us or share an activity that we have in common. Cross country, in my case, allowed me to meet friends who shared a common desire to run and achieve certain goals within our running careers. Even when I didn’t have a particularly good race or was not able to meet a personal goal, my group always encouraged me to strive toward the goal and was always willing to tell me that they hated running as much as I do. Surrounding ourselves with people who we can share a laugh and have a good chat with helps us become better ourselves because no one wants to work or be completely by himself.
Within a group, we feel protected, safe, secure. When these feelings are not there, the group is always one that we can rely on to garner positive encouragement and feel better about ourselves. I cannot imagine not having friends to run with or not having people to talk about a particularly difficult homework assignment. Without these groups, I would be exposed to my own negative thoughts and would destroy any chance of accomplishing my personal goals. With a group, however, the exchange of ideas and support not only makes our goals seem easier to reach, but also builds are spirit and heart.
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